Soul mates.
This may seem familiar... because it writen May 8, 2005 on my xanga.
Today while I was working, I saw someone that looked like Mr. Moreau... and then about 10 more minutes later I saw another guy that looked like him and then I thought about the fact that Ms. Ramirez married Mr. Moreau and I wonder what would've happened if she married someone else that just looked like him. And then for some reason after I thought that, I wondered about soul mates and I realized that I don't believe in soul mates. At least, not in the way that people believe in them.
Am I really supposed to believe that I'm destined to marry this one person? That destiny has my life planned out and all I have to do is find this person? I somehow highly doubt it.
To me, a soul mate is someone you get along with really well and someone that understands you and someone you understand. You think the other's thoughts and finish each other's sentence. A soul mate can be your best friend as well as your significant other or spouse and I have more than one soul mate.
I mean, with all the divorce that's out there, you don't really expect me to believe that everyone has one soul mate, do you? No... who I marry will be my soul mate, but he wouldn't be my only one. Everyone decides for themselves who they want to be with and who they are compatable with. If there's one thing I learned, it's that. So for everyone dating someone right now, you're with them because that's who you choose to be with. If you want to eventually marry that person, it's because you believe that person is your soul mate... It's not destiny at all. It's all choices. It's what you do to make you happy. It's what you believe is right... and nobody can tell you otherwise, so don't let them.
Today while I was working, I saw someone that looked like Mr. Moreau... and then about 10 more minutes later I saw another guy that looked like him and then I thought about the fact that Ms. Ramirez married Mr. Moreau and I wonder what would've happened if she married someone else that just looked like him. And then for some reason after I thought that, I wondered about soul mates and I realized that I don't believe in soul mates. At least, not in the way that people believe in them.
Am I really supposed to believe that I'm destined to marry this one person? That destiny has my life planned out and all I have to do is find this person? I somehow highly doubt it.
To me, a soul mate is someone you get along with really well and someone that understands you and someone you understand. You think the other's thoughts and finish each other's sentence. A soul mate can be your best friend as well as your significant other or spouse and I have more than one soul mate.
I mean, with all the divorce that's out there, you don't really expect me to believe that everyone has one soul mate, do you? No... who I marry will be my soul mate, but he wouldn't be my only one. Everyone decides for themselves who they want to be with and who they are compatable with. If there's one thing I learned, it's that. So for everyone dating someone right now, you're with them because that's who you choose to be with. If you want to eventually marry that person, it's because you believe that person is your soul mate... It's not destiny at all. It's all choices. It's what you do to make you happy. It's what you believe is right... and nobody can tell you otherwise, so don't let them.
posted by Rukia @ 9:41 AM
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